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Secret Flame is easy to use!

Registration is free and completely confidential. It will allow us to notify you if someone you name as your secret flame also names you as their secret flame.

First, you tell us about yourself by registering and completing your profile. This is free of charge. Your profile will always remain confidential. It will never be seen by anyone else.

Once you are registered, you can tell us who your secret flame is. All we need is their name and an email address

Registration

To use Secret Flame, you first need to register and tell us about yourself by completing your profile. Registration is free of charge. Your profile will always remain confidential. It will never be seen by anyone else.

Your profile must include at least one email address. We'll send a message to that email address asking you to confirm your registration. This is to be sure that the address belongs to you. You can put in any number of alternative email addresses if you have several of them. In each case you’ll be sent an email to confirm that the address belongs to you.

Posting details of your secret flame(s)

Once you are registered, you can tell us who your secret flame is. You do this by filling in a form that is similar to the one you completed for your own profile. All you will need to provide is the name and email address of your secret flame. You can provide alternative email addresses if they have more than one.

If you have more than one candidate in mind, you can post separate flames for each of them. There is no limit on the number of posts that can be active at the same time.

When you name someone as your secret flame, we will send them an email to tell them that someone is interested in them, but we won't reveal your identity.

Notification of a successful match

Once you have registered and posted the details of your secret flames, we will continuously check the posts of all the other users of the site to see if a match turns up. If so, we will inform you using the site mailbox. You can also choose to be informed by email. You can turn this option on and off using the checkbox on your profile page.

If anything is still unclear, try our FAQ page .

If you have questions, comments or suggestions, please contact us.