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Be warned, this site is addictive! I've sent about 20 flames and now I'm constantly checking my mailbox see if I get a match.

Thanks for a great site. I feel so much better for having taken a positive step.

This is a fantastic idea. It's like speed dating, but without the need for speed and with the people you meet in everyday life!

Why didn't anyone think of this before?

I signed up a couple of weeks ago, and posted a few flames. The interesting thing is I've noticed a change in my own behaviour. Now I send out more little signals to get them to name me as their flame. Great fun!

This is more exciting than doing the lottery, and much cheaper too!

I've never liked the idea of putting my profile online, and especially not on a dating site for everyone to see. So Secret Flame is perfect for me.